;Wednesday, June 21, 2017
So lets just face it. It was a rebound relationship. And definitely it was in an infatuation stage. Typically it should last about 6 months?
When infatuation stage wears off, to make a rebound relationship works, it takes alot of work to make it really happen.
Firstly, you must be aware that this relationship isn't distracting you from the pain you feel from the break up.
Secondly, when infatuation wears off, you probably see yourself trap in a repeated cycle and have no choice but to face the demon. Things like emotional dependence on others, regrets of the failed relationship and changes you hope to make. You can avoid all these underlying issues but it will eventually resurface. But just because it resurfaced, it doesn't mean that the rebound relationship is bound to be doomed. Instead, you work through them.
Thirdly, if you really wish to see this through, you have to cut your exes loose. That includes having no feelings and any sort of contacts.
Lastly, if it work, it will work. Rebounds are dangerous in the fact that a lot of people do not know what they want after a relationship ends and they settle just for the comfort and not being alone. This is where rebounds are extremely dangerous.
Well, I think I'm kinda over analysing it. But this is how we fail i guess.
You are truly happy when you are with me; that being said, you are still sad when you are alone and I was only a distraction from the pain.
You were obviously trapped in a repeated cycle. You needed a "break" a few times in between. Not sure if you really did work through them. At least you convinced yourself to a point where enough was enough. I wished I had the chance to really listen those words and work it out with you.
Obviously, you didn't cut him loose despite so much convincing done in your head. You showed me his "tweeter" like page and it was about you. This IS a form of communication to a certain extent which will string your heart. But I don't belong to the controlling type of guy.
Well, it didn't quite work out the way WE wanted. Guess I'll just leave it as another failed rebound relationship. In the beginning, you were quite true beyond any doubt that you wanted this, but eventually you gave in to the doubts. And probably there is where you lost it.
But well, infatuation wears off, 长痛不如短痛 beh.
Rainbow Madness; 5:36 PM
